I love nice people. I know most people would say "well, of course, I do too" but really, I.love.nice.people. Nice people make my day. I actually
seek nice people. They can really make your day. Just as I can really make someone's day by being nice myself.
I was out running a few weeks ago - I knew it was going to rain soon and I knew I wasn't going to beat the rain. It wasn't just going to rain, it was going to pour. I initially ran away from where the clouds were going but they came fast, quicker then I expected. I thought the end of my run would be in the rain but pretty much, the whole hour was in a downpour. I was drenched. I was frozen. I was ill-prepared to be running in the rain. BUT, I loved it. Every second of it. It made me run harder, faster, and made me appreciate the weather here in Arizona.
Anyway, about 1/2 way through my run, about to head downhill, I noticed a car slowly pulling up beside me but I wasn't sure what was going on, if I should stop or if she was really stopping for me. I slowed down a bit and she rolled her window down, huge smile on her face, "Do you need a ride?" I wanted to keep running b/c I was in the groove - but my heart melted. Wow. Some strange lady who probably had better things to do then stop to offer a moronic woman running in the rain still stopped to ask if I needed a ride. I smiled, said "thank you sooo much but I'm doing just great!" I think she thought I was nuts, but she then slowly went on her merry way. I wanted to get her license plate number to tell her how much I appreciated it, although a small gesture for her, it was huge for me. Huge to know there are still some really nice people in this world. She did a U-turn though and I didn't want to look nuts following her back up the hill :)
I live near a very popular hiking trail. I've hiked it for several years now and I've noticed that 9 times out of 10 nearly everyone on the trail is not friendly. It's always bothered me. Sometimes to the point where I don't even want to hike. It's a busy trail - you meet people constantly, most don't turn their heads, few smile. When I took Quinn last week it was a hit or a miss. One lady walked passed us, I'm quite positive she wasn't hearing impaired or anything, but Quinn said very loudly and sweetly "Hi,you're my friend!" The lady didn't even turn her head at him. He said this to nearly everyone we encountered on the way up. Some smiled, some commented, but many said nothing at all. To be honest, the two couples that DID notice him and said something had "Iowa" shirts on! No joke. Go figure.
I purposely went into WalMart today (I'm a Target fan) - but I just love those old people who stand at the doors to greet you in WalMart. I just needed that. I love their zest for life. I always make sure to look at these people and smile, if they are looking, and always say hello. Always. They appreciate it.
I was in line at Hobbly Lobby the other day with just a few items. An older woman came up behind me with just one tiny little thing of paint or glue or something so I asked her if she wanted to go ahead of me. She was shocked at my kindness just as I usually am with random acts of kindness others show. She gladly went ahead and it just so happened she was in a hurry to get home to babysit one of her grandbabies. It made MY day to know she appreciated it.
I was in Target about a month or so ago with the three boys and we were there to spend some money that my Dad had sent each of the boys. Konnor and Hunter chose their treats wisely and Quinn of course wanted some gigantic, expensive train table that we already have. I of course said no. Quinn, being a 2 year old, threw a fit. One of those where you literally just want to throw them all in the cart and run out the door hoping you'll never see any of those people again. I didn't want to cheat Konnor and Hunter out of their finds so we made our way up to the counter to pay, all the while, Quinn being a little turd screaming. I apologized to the lady checking us out who had no problem with the way Quinn was behaving...and as I was paying I noticed this older woman coming towards us, who, to be quite honest, looked like one of those mean old ladies with nothing but mean things to say, so I thought to myself "Shannon, just bite your tongue and walk away" and the poor old lady hadn't even said anything yet. Anyway, she slowly creeped up to us, finally had a small smile on her face, looked at Quinn and said "oh honey, you have the most wonderful Mom ever" in the quietest, sweetest voice. I just melted. What a nice lady and how horrible of me to assume she was going to say something ridiculous. What a random act of kindness.
Moral of the story: Smile. Be kind. Even if you're having a bad day, look up and smile at others. You never know whose day you just might make and I can guarantee you it will make you feel good about yourself. It's the little things in life that count.